The writer as soon as knew a case where a husband and wife lived together to rejoice their golden wedding ceremony, and the spouse by no means once skilled an orgasm, although the husband cohabited with her a number of occasions a month, throughout probably the most of their married life. The author is aware of of a case where the marriage came about simply three days earlier than the bride’s subsequent monthly was due, and she and her husband waited for more than two weeks before they met sexually! On one hand they don’t have women’s ability to breastfeed kids, are perceived as sexually (over)energetic and doubtlessly predatory and, like lesbians, too political; on the other hand they’re more maternal and extra feminine than heterosexual males. They’re both a pure secretion of a mucous membrane, are alkaline in response, their native goal is lubrication, and, as a matter of truth, the saliva is as pure an application to the lips of the vulva as it is to the interior of the mouth or throat. If, perchance, the pre-coital secretion ought to be tardy in showing on the part of the wife, so that the vulva is dry as the husband strokes it, let him moisten the half with saliva from his mouth.

Under such “courting,” the parts will all enlarge, the pre-coital secretion will movement in abundance; and, in due course, all shall be ready for the second part of the act. This is a form of masturbation (this word has a nasty meaning connected to it, nevertheless it is an effective word, as will shortly be proven, and it has its reliable uses; but, as a preparation for coition, it should not be carried any additional than is important for bringing the laggard ardour of the woman as much as an equal tension of that of her lover.) A few weeks’, or months’, follow will allow a wife to find out simply how much of this type of “courting” will deliver her to the desired point of pleasure; and, when this level is reached, she should invite her husband to “come up over,” if the primary position is to be adopted for the rest of the act; or, she should throw herself into her lover’s arms, if the second position is used.

A very frequent cause of married unsatisfaction is the fact of the distinction of time that it takes for the husband and spouse to return to the climax, the orgasm. As a rule, girls are slower in reaching the orgasm than are men. Many a small man has an abnormally giant and long penis, and plenty of a bit of woman has a big vulva and a protracted vagina; and the reverse of all that is true, in the case of many women and men. And the last time — they saved me nine days chained up — I hit a fellow for abusing Floyd: he was small and couldn’t defend himself. The first sexual assembly of the bride and groom ought to never happen till at the least ten days after the ceasing of the menstrual stream in the bride! L’Amour, whereas hitchhiking across New Mexico as a younger man decided to take what he thought would be a very good shortcut through the desert. When asked if he missed intercourse, the man shrugs it off.

Now in this position, the man’s hips make a form of saddle into which the girl “vaults” easily, naturally, and with the greatest of comfort; whereas the man, with his entire body supported by the mattress, as he lies, might be perfectly snug, and can maintain the place for much longer, without tiring, than he might have been he over and above the lady, supporting himself by his elbows and knees, and with the girl’s arms around his waist, lifting her physique thereby, and thus adding her weight to his, all to be sustained by him. This is a thousand times truer for the woman than for the man, for it’s she who has to bear the burden of what follows, if following there be. And nonetheless there may be extra to be mentioned! There was no good reason why this should have been so, solely that the husband was “fast in motion” and the spouse somewhat gradual, and they’d never synchronated their time variations. It is a matter of misfortune, and yet one among not infrequent prevalence, that the sex organs of husband and wife usually are not nicely matched; and that bother, generally of a most serious nature, outcomes.